Most kids look forward to getting the car keys for the first time. Those keys represent something enormous to them. They represent independence. Independence can often be taken for granted until we are at risk of losing it. Caregivers for aging loved ones are facing many challenges, and knowing when their loved one needs help can be one of the biggest. Many people can live independently for years with a few minor adjustments to their homes while others may need daily or weekly assistance.
Housing:
How safe is the house? Stairways, hallways and slippery tile floors can all increase a loved one’s fall risk. A broken hip may mean the loss of independence. Downsizing to a single-floor house or apartment is rarely an option for most people, but creating a single-floor living space is often very doable. Transform an unused office or spare bedroom into the main bedroom to eliminate the need for using the stairs.
Remove all throw rugs, which can be trip hazards, and add skid-resistant sticky-backed mats to linoleum or tiled floors if necessary. Add brackets to the tops of tall shelving units and bookshelves to secure them to the wall and reduce the risk of tipping, and keep all items stored on the lower shelves.
Personal Care:
Bad eyesight, poor balance and incontinence can make living alone difficult and even dangerous. Many of us barely notice the individual steps involved in tasks as we go about our daily routines, but a decline in physical or cognitive function can interfere with personal care needs. Cooking requires complex steps that can lead to dangerous situations if not followed properly. Cleaning is another task that is necessary to health and hygiene. If your loved one is struggling to maintain personal hygiene, manage household tasks or cook, he or she may benefit from assistance.
When Help Is Needed:
If your loved one is suffering from declines that have made living independently dangerous, in-home care may be an option that can allow them to continue living independently. Weekly cleaning services may be all that is needed for some. Others may benefit from the type of intensive personal care that in-home caregivers can provide. Whether your loved one needs help changing clothes or toileting, a caregiver can help.