When your parent can no longer live on his or her own, you may be taxed with finding him or her a new place to live. Many adult children bring their parents home to live with them where they can better take care of them. This can be a positive solution that enhances your parent’s life, your own life and your children’s lives as you have an opportunity to live and learn together. However, it can also pose challenges that can include adjusting to the new dynamics or making alterations to your home to keep your parent safe. Installing grab bars, eliminating trip hazards and adding other safety features can reduce the risk of injury.
If your parent’s abilities decrease, he or she may need more supervision or around-the-clock care. Finding a caring nursing home near your home can help ease the transition. Look for a home that offers plenty of social activities, a warm and friendly nursing staff and educational programs or activities to meet your parent’s social and cognitive needs. The home should have a good reputation in the community, the health care industry and the local department of public health.
Caring for your parents can be richly rewarding. In fact, many find that they are happy with their new role. However, becoming your parent’s caregiver can also be an emotional roller coaster. You may find yourself struggling to balance the needs of your parent with your own needs or the needs of your family. Strained relationships and guilt can interfere with your ability to give back to your parents in a positive, healthy way. Taking breaks when necessary and recharging can give you the necessary emotional fuel to serve your parent with love and kindness, and you may find that you truly appreciate the opportunity to draw closer as they age.