There are as many reasons that parents choose to give their son or daughter up for adoption as there are reasons for others to volunteer themselves to take care of such children. People who give their offspring up at birth do so because they believe they are giving that infant a better life than what they could provide. It is a selfless act, as is the act of taking a child in. Sometimes a mother simply knows she will be unable to take care of a helpless infant due to her own circumstances. This may be due to her age, the circumstances surrounding her pregnancy, or other life experiences that she's had. Whatever the reasons are, it certainly isn't an easy decision to make.
If you are interested in learning how to adopt a child there are different ways to do so. Finding help through an experienced adoption counselor or specialized center is probably the best way to go about it. Keep in mind that the process can garner some very expensive fees. This can be true whether the process is local or overseas through foreign channels. Different countries have their own rules and laws regarding the process. Some of them change quite often, so do your research.
Although many people are set on adding an infant to their family, it might not work out that way. If you are open to adopting an older child you may find the process a bit easier - and there also might be less of a wait. There are many orphanages around the world that are full of kids who are well passed the infant stage yet still need loving parents. Many of those places also have kids that have special needs, which is another thing to consider as you think about your options. It is often an emotional decision. You may see something in a little one that no one else has seen and make a decision based solely on the emotions that are elicited.
Keep in mind that although the upfront costs may seem high, there are certain tax benefits that go along with having children. This is, of course, not a reason to add to your family, but it does help ease the potential for financial stress. Of course, the best reason to adopt is because you have an open heart and will love your new family member and the joy he or she is sure to bring to your life. And never forget that your love will offer them a better future than what they might have had otherwise.